"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
2009 New Years Resolutions, Official Thread
- Thread starter Bryce556
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
My goals for 2009:
-Work out, get cut, gym 3-4 times a week.
-Finish composing a piece of chamber music (currently writing a duet for flute and oboe). Compose more in general.
-Learn, inside and out, Logic 8 Pro so I can start scoring film and tv productions professionally by 2010.
-Practice jazz guitar at least an hour a day, every day, usually more.
-Start a band.
-Work on gaining perfect relative pitch.
-Educate myself more about politics.. I've recently been considering politics as a career path for myself as well as film scoring.
-Do lots of crazy ****, have an amazing year full of stories!
CTApprentice
Don Juan
-Got number closes like crazy was about to escalate with a few that I found attractive but they moved(next time im not making the same mistake twice)
-I've notice that my personality has changed from being more outgoing, outspoken, and assertive
-Became a chapter officer of my school's National Honor Society as well as other clubs (like two years ago I would have never imagined of doing this..I constastly get to meet new people as well as gain some exposure.)
-noticed that girls are much more receptive to me
-changed up my style a little bit...made it more ecceletic
-figured out that I don't have to define myself to anyone(was inspired by Heath Ledgers Joker),
Goals for 2009:
1. Gain 20lbs of muscle before attending college
2.save up for an awesome present for my fathers b-day
3. apply myself even more to my studies
4.Participate more in school clubs
5. Go on more dates
5.get rid of my social anxiety/shyness
6.become a natural dj
7.go on a road trip
8.learn to cook
9.kiss close
10. conversate more with my favorite teachers
11.become more relaxed
12. Get a gf(if she proves herself to me..then it happens)
13.get drivers permit/license and a car
14. become fluent in spanish(I love the culture, the food and the women)
It helps to write them down on a piece of paper and keep writing them down every day. Just to keep them in mind. Once they are in mind you're more likely to work towards them. All successful people write down their goals on 'to do' lists even the little things.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
gonnamakeit
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Yo wanted to bump this thread to update resolutions and see how everyone else is doing on theirs lets achieve all of these.gonnamakeit said:
K far as my goals
Destroy all traces of oneitis check
Added maybe 10 pounds of muscle so far and am getting leaner and closer to single digit body fat.
Be mentally prepared for all competitions. Check
Win tournaments. in progress next tournament I find I will enter
Get liscense. In progress next month or two.
My confidence is way higher I brush of rejections way better got a better social life got new hobbies and tons of other great stuff that wasn't specifically in the goals.
And DJBC startin it in 2 weeks I am feelin good first two to three weeks are almost happening for me everyweek just naturally I am so pumped to do it. So ALL of my goals and resolutions should be complete in like 12 weeks. HELL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!
How are all your guys doing on your resolutions?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
gonnamakeit
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WTF? Piranha