"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

2009 Bootcamp Journal

milo

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2008
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Location
Where The Streets Have No Name
First of all, HAPPY NEW YEAR to everyone!!

After trying to do the christmas bootcamp and getting stuck in week 2, I've decided to start again with this new year.

I don't know if this time I'm going to make it through all 8 weeks, nor 3, nor 1, all I know is that TODAY, right NOW, I'm doing the what I have to do for this week, and I'll try to keep this mentality through the whole the process.

Anybody who would like to join me is welcomed to post here as well.

It's 2 AM (here), Friday, January 2 of 2009, week one starts today.

New year, new life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Impact

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2005
Messages
205
Reaction score
1
Location
UK
Good luck man!
 

milo

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2008
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Location
Where The Streets Have No Name
Done with week 1!

Got like 40+ on Tuesday, I went to this beach city (don't now if it's the right translation, it's this one http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Punta_del_Este) for the day with some friends, and man.. I never saw so many HBs in a day in my life! 95% of the hi's were to them. Doing the BC would be much easier if I could spent the summer there, oh well...

I even made my first cold aproach ever!! I think it was an HB9, the four of us were sitting on a side walk right in front of the beach, and there was this hot blonde like 60 mts away eating an icecream and waiting for the bus I think, and one of my friends made a bet with me that he would give me his medal (we went there to run this 10k race) if I aproached her and leave with a kiss on the cheek. So I went and explained it to her like I'm doing with you, total honesty, and she said no problem! muack, thanks! bye!

It may not seem like much but it's some progress to me :)

Bring on week 2!


Thanks Impact! and congratulations on completing week 4!
 
Top