"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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2009 Bootcamp Journal

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First of all, HAPPY NEW YEAR to everyone!!

After trying to do the christmas bootcamp and getting stuck in week 2, I've decided to start again with this new year.

I don't know if this time I'm going to make it through all 8 weeks, nor 3, nor 1, all I know is that TODAY, right NOW, I'm doing the what I have to do for this week, and I'll try to keep this mentality through the whole the process.

Anybody who would like to join me is welcomed to post here as well.

It's 2 AM (here), Friday, January 2 of 2009, week one starts today.

New year, new life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good luck man!
 
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Done with week 1!

Got like 40+ on Tuesday, I went to this beach city (don't now if it's the right translation, it's this one http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Punta_del_Este) for the day with some friends, and man.. I never saw so many HBs in a day in my life! 95% of the hi's were to them. Doing the BC would be much easier if I could spent the summer there, oh well...

I even made my first cold aproach ever!! I think it was an HB9, the four of us were sitting on a side walk right in front of the beach, and there was this hot blonde like 60 mts away eating an icecream and waiting for the bus I think, and one of my friends made a bet with me that he would give me his medal (we went there to run this 10k race) if I aproached her and leave with a kiss on the cheek. So I went and explained it to her like I'm doing with you, total honesty, and she said no problem! muack, thanks! bye!

It may not seem like much but it's some progress to me :)

Bring on week 2!


Thanks Impact! and congratulations on completing week 4!
 
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