"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
2006 World Cup Finals
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dublinsfinest
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Ireland drew with a full squad Brazil so we do have a good team, but we get some disappointing results against lesser teams and it hurts us. I'd like to see portugal win it, ronaldo is CLASS.
Ireland have a tough few matches coming up. I don't think people should be wondering whether they can WIN the cup, the should be wondering whether they can QUALIFY for the cup!
Come on Ireland!
I just hope wright phillips gets ahead of beckham on the right but i cant see that happening coz eriksson hangs on his nuts like a *****. Owen needs to leave madrid coz he aint getting no first team action there and that aint good. He should give it a chance there for the first 6 months if he aint getting any action then he needs to go on loan to the premiership.
im optimistic but would be even more if wright phillips plays ahead of beckham. imagine this team, it would be unstoppable:
robinson
neville ferdinand terry a. cole
w. phillips gerrard lampard j.cole
rooney owen
but seriously if ireland win im going to convert into a homo. seriously.
Mr.Style
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Beckham is a useless captain. Apparently he 'leads by example'. Gimme a break. Gerrard would be a better choice but the REAL choice for captain should be John Terry. There's no one in the England team who plays with his passion. Terry is a beast in defence.
Like I said though, England are lacking when it comes to team spirit and the English press will be waiting to pounce on the team if they slip up. I think they will.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonSonnySagliani
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Anyway I will be cheering for ITALY.
DonSonnySagliani
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shshshshshsh... quiet... don't tell everyone what a beta male you are!Taviii said:
(insulting other people and makin fun, than we wonder where are the real don juans)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Beta male? You are the one that doesn't want to see a fight for the world cup remember?DonSonnySagliani said:shshshshshsh... quiet... don't tell everyone what a beta male you are!
(insulting other people and makin fun, than we wonder where are the real don juans)
If I remember right alpha males plunge in the unexpected while beta males stay in the comfort zone.
:rock:
Anyways don't take **** to serious mate! My cousin from the German army will be in that sh!t hole kosovo in a few weeks to protect the inocent people there so don't make me tell him to find you
DonSonnySagliani
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Diagnosis: Bad Ass BETA!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think Holland and Brazil will both do very well this year.
Australia plays Holland soon in a friendly, so that should be interesting.
Greece, ha ha, yeah funny they didnt make it, but they suck! Lucky to win the Euro, and just lost in a friendly to Australia, in a match they were thoroughly outplayed! Australia is actually looking quiet good, surprisingly! Might even make it out of the group stage, lol!
England has as many votes as Brazil? WTF!
Did they?Adone said:Didn't Italy beat Holland 3-1 a couple of months ago? Italy and Brazil for the finals
Was it a full strength Holland side?
Man, Holland just beat Mexico with a second string side, they are looking damn impressive to me! Will be tough, but who could bet against Brazil! Will be interesting to see where all the attackers are played. So damn many of them! Ronaldinho, Ronaldo, Kaka, Robinho, Adriano, WTF, that is just incredible! Too bad there is no Rivaldo, he was a HUGE asset in the last Brazil WC win.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.