"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2000...two thousand reasons why you should be needy

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I read a post devoid of life....just out to go for a dip in a new pool.
Be careful in new waters.


We don't "need" to be a stereotypical alpha.. Just like our girls don't need to be stereotypes.

Guys here need to forget pua.

Just listen to your moms advice and eat vegetables, don't sit on the couch all day, mommy loves you, talk to the girl. Smile.



When did you people make sex an issue!?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You having a stroke or something? This is completely incoherent.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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the hell are you talking about
Lol... Which people is you people and sex IS an issue. Eat vegetables, talk to the girl and smile is valid advice. Thank god the op was able to condense sosuave into half a paragraph. Thanls man, have some more for me.
 

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mommy loves you
 

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That sounded like a Haiku....and then a bong hit....and then something else
 

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Of course men don't need to be "alpha". The vast majority of men are NOT alpha.

Being alpha is for men who want to have lots of options and date women on their own terms. If that is not appealing to you then be a needy beta. You will still get laid and you might even get a hot girlfriend or wife. The main difference is you will be ruled by the women in your life and they will not respect you or feel much attraction towards you.

Remember that society needs most men to be betas. Betas are the cannon fodder sacrificial lambs of the world that eat sh!t so that everyone else can live well. Have fun with that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drugs are bad, MMMkay!!!
 
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