Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They actually all coming from the USAThe common thing is that those poor "refugees" running away from war are all military aged males in great physical shape and clean clothes...al holding cellphones.
Apparently war in africa is better than a solid diet and lifting regime given the results.
Btw dont complain too much mate, wait till diseases defeated a century ago will suddenly appear in your country right before favelas style neightbourhood.
In any major western european capital there are already no go zones for citizens and often even for the same law enforcement.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Our country IS weaker because our dumb5hit Prime Minister invited them. Now we've got 1200 waiting at the border, and 2400 in the stadium. And that's at only ONE border crossing! There's others throughout the country.If they think your country is weaker on immigration get ready for guests.…
That's probably how the place got infested with bed bugs. I'd never even heard about them 20 years ago. Now they've infested probably about 60-70% of our apartment blocks. Diseases? Yeah, that's going to come too.wait till diseases defeated a century ago will suddenly appear in your country
You know, I wouldn't even mind them coming if our economy was good and our deficit was non-existent. We don't have that. We have that fvcking dip5hit giving our money away, introducing a new tax that hurts businesses, and paying fvcking terrorists large settlements with our tax money. Sure, let's house and feed a few thousand extra homeless people too.even Ministers of Haïti came to ThanksUs for letting them in...wtf
Join the rest of the civilized world then whose leaders invite thirld world savages as new citizens that bring increased crime and our eradicated diseases with them. Rape is a common thing in their culture and they do Not care if it's your daughter, GF, or wife.This country is in deep 5hit. Our economy is going to tank in the next decade or so.
Well they invited to fill the jobs that no one wants.... working in restaurants, manufactories, the fields etc...Our country IS weaker because our dumb5hit Prime Minister invited them. Now we've got 1200 waiting at the border, and 2400 in the stadium. And that's at only ONE border crossing! There's others throughout the country.
That's probably how the place got infested with bed bugs. I'd never even heard about them 20 years ago. Now they've infested probably about 60-70% of our apartment blocks. Diseases? Yeah, that's going to come too.
You know, I wouldn't even mind them coming if our economy was good and our deficit was non-existent. We don't have that. We have that fvcking dip5hit giving our money away, introducing a new tax that hurts businesses, and paying fvcking terrorists large settlements with our tax money. Sure, let's house and feed a few thousand extra homeless people too.
This country is in deep 5hit. Our economy is going to tank in the next decade or so.
I dont believe someone coming from a third world culture will cease enjoying free food and shelter to come to clean our toilet or serve us food.Well they invited to fill the jobs that no one wants.... working in restaurants, manufactories, the fields etc...
Gotta support the economy with affordable labor
The trouble I see in this area is everyone's looking for a degree. With the baby boomers exiting the workplace, companies should start footing at least half the bill for the schooling to fill their vacancies.If we lack factory workers we should raise the salary and the work conditions instead of bringing expensive dangerous people that wont do it anyway.
Easier said than done...Don't like it? Elect new leaders that don't have their heads buried in their azzes while being stuffed with corporate money, or get ready for immigration that lowers your standard of life.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes and No.People would still do these jobs.
I never understood the leftist position of "Need to fill it with affordable labor" (Not calling you a leftist Von, just saying it is a standard leftist point).
How can they hold the belief that we need these people for low wages and affordable labor, while also pushing for $15/hr for unskilled labor?
I think the problem is money management at the top. We've gotten too far ahead of the third world. I think it'd be best to bring us down a tad....and getting rid of lending (inflated wealth) would be a good start to that. I'm not a economist, and I realize the toothpaste is sort of out of the tube.I agree with a lot of this, however the reason nobody wants to do it is because it does not pay enough.
If it paid more, people would come back to it. The issue is that we are using illegals to screw with the free market pricing of labor. The market will self correct, if we allow it to.
But if you do... the employer will lose profit.... and it can come to massive profit... often in construction they use ''illegal or foreign'' to avoid dealing with WorkerUnions (who will ask for 50$ an hour... 3 hours break per hour, 5 guys on the same job etc..)I mean just offer more money to fill the positions you have a hard time filling. Raising minimum wage just further messes up the free market forces.
In many ways.....this is very true.Manual labor is now more valuable than a Liberal job
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.