Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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AlexParadox

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collalife said:
4th set.(asian) hb 5(lol low huh)
me: are you by chance a dancer?
her: yeah
me: well i noticed the dance banner are you in a group/
her: yeah im in (something) and we partcipate in competitions and cheography dance.
me: o thats cool did you get paid?
her: (chuckles) no we do it for free.
me: thats interesting cause im interesting in getting a dance group(i pop lock my arm (dhv) )
her: nice. so if dont wanna compete we have a nother group that just does hip hop, and dance.
me: no i wanna compete.
her: so your a incoming freshman?
me: yeah(at another school lol)
her:well hi my name is (ill use britney)
me: hi my name is collalife(which i dont use lol)
me: welll see you around.
her:bye
excellent job on this one,
but like Jayer said, attempt a close.
the dance one sounded like it was going good, i think you could have scored a number there
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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collalife

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LOng time no see.

I been gone a long time. Right now Im actually starting the bootcamp for don juan to take this a little serious.

Im moving too, to a lame part of the country. So Ima be a little more focused. I will be in the field like a soccer player, kickin game. I will chronicle all the decent number closes and interesting convos. Check my other thread called don juan boot camp for my progress on that endeavor.

Stay tuned for the real deal.
 

Matt281

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Good that you're getting out there, but you're not really gonna learn much if you just eject on your own immediately.

Either A) try to keep the conversation going somehow, or B) go direct and ask for a number right away. So you'd either try to transition into anything and keep talking into she tells you she has to leave, or be straight up and say something like "hey, this is really random but I think you're really cute. Are you single?".

Again, awesome that you're approaching, but you gotta push things to improve.
 

collalife

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Im coming back(RETURN OF A DON TO BE)

Yeah I do... I understand. I have fell off as of recently. I am doing the don juan boot camp. Check my threads for it. I need to push cuz a boring life is well... boring.
 
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