"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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20 yr old european vs 22 year old half azn

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First a preface, sorry for not reading the newbie threads.

Secondly, the situation. I am a relatively inexperienced 20 yr old (Had sex about 20 times), wanting to get with a very hot 22 year old asian at work, who has mentioned once a bf. I'm not interested in people saying stay away from girls at work/girls with bf etc etc.

I need some advice. This girl has obviously been in a long term relationship before where as I haven't. Automatically this makes me a bit less disreable as I will not be able to live up to her expectations in the sack, but I don't care. I want this girl naked in my arms.

So here's the deal, I am 20, she's 22, and I know her via work. Right away we have a connection. No awkward silences, she loves what I have to say, and I have been flirting with her - which she reciprocates. I have only heard her mention a BF once. I am arrogant enough to assume I am as good looking as him, but according to this site looks don't matter that much anyway.

Where do I go from here? I just need some advice on how to take to the next leve;, because in this area I am completely inexperienced. Any advice much appreciated.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I work with about 20 young women and flirt with most of them. Most of them have a boyfriend and we get around pretty well, we smile at each other and have fun.. but that does not mean anything and Im more than sure that none of them who have BF's would go out with me.. I think its normal to flirt with the opposite sex at work without thinking about it at home or having any future plans.

I fear that your collegue might reject you and spoil the relationship you have at work. Its your choice to give it a try of course but I would be careful
 
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just go for it bro. i'm in the same situationg as you. i'm trying to game this european chick who has a boyfriend... things are going great, she has great interest. just hang out with her and dont bring up the boyfriend. she's only 22, its matter of time til they break up anyhow.
 
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