"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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20 yr old european vs 22 year old half azn

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First a preface, sorry for not reading the newbie threads.

Secondly, the situation. I am a relatively inexperienced 20 yr old (Had sex about 20 times), wanting to get with a very hot 22 year old asian at work, who has mentioned once a bf. I'm not interested in people saying stay away from girls at work/girls with bf etc etc.

I need some advice. This girl has obviously been in a long term relationship before where as I haven't. Automatically this makes me a bit less disreable as I will not be able to live up to her expectations in the sack, but I don't care. I want this girl naked in my arms.

So here's the deal, I am 20, she's 22, and I know her via work. Right away we have a connection. No awkward silences, she loves what I have to say, and I have been flirting with her - which she reciprocates. I have only heard her mention a BF once. I am arrogant enough to assume I am as good looking as him, but according to this site looks don't matter that much anyway.

Where do I go from here? I just need some advice on how to take to the next leve;, because in this area I am completely inexperienced. Any advice much appreciated.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I work with about 20 young women and flirt with most of them. Most of them have a boyfriend and we get around pretty well, we smile at each other and have fun.. but that does not mean anything and Im more than sure that none of them who have BF's would go out with me.. I think its normal to flirt with the opposite sex at work without thinking about it at home or having any future plans.

I fear that your collegue might reject you and spoil the relationship you have at work. Its your choice to give it a try of course but I would be careful
 
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just go for it bro. i'm in the same situationg as you. i'm trying to game this european chick who has a boyfriend... things are going great, she has great interest. just hang out with her and dont bring up the boyfriend. she's only 22, its matter of time til they break up anyhow.
 
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