20 year old chick

[phillyb]

what up....


I met this 20 year old chick, she's pretty cool. I'm 28. We chat online often. Everytime we make plans, it seems, she bails. the last time, it was even her idea to meet up the night before. So she IMs me asking me to do something the following night. I tell her that's fine and we decide on atime for her to call. The next night she calls and says she needs to get a shower and look presentable. I say ok, call me when your ready to meet up. She calls back and cancels, says she is dead tired, asks if we can do it sometime later this week. she later came online and IMed me.....said she cant sleep...brief pause...then she goes....Entertain me.


I thought to myself, self....this is either a) an attention *****
b) a girl with a boyfriend
c) a chick with emotional
problems
d) all of the above


This has happened like 3 times. We have only ever met once at dinner. I met her online.



my solution........next



your thoughts, concerns ideas......


thanx,


phil

 

[allan976]

.....or e) she's not interested and is waiting for you to take the hint.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by phillyb


she later came online and IMed me.....said she cant sleep...brief pause...then she goes....Entertain me.

c) a chick with emotional
problems

What do you want from 20 y.o. chick? This is the way most women behave at 20... she just wants to play, party and have a cooool bf.
NEXT.

 

[chuchu]

The entertain me part tells me that she's still very immature.

It's fun to play around with these kids, but not an ideal for a relationship.

I'll say

 

[AIR-PILOT]

Hold it Hold it...
She is immature I agree...
She likes you because you are older etc etc.
This to me equals SEX.
Bang her and leave her.

 

[iveyleeger]

NEXT

(unless you like head games)

 

[Gravyboat]

Yeah, she's a Frosted Flake alright.

I'd definitely drop her. If you wanted to, you could probably bust on her for constantly flaking and re-scheduling, but it doesn't even sound like she's worth it.

20-year-olds usually aren't.

Oh--and I'd definitely give her sh*t about that "entertain me" b.s. lol

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

I think you should bail. I was 20 just a few years ago and played those same games. Notice I said games, cause that is what it is. I didn't do it for any perticular reason. Mostly to see how long I could string him along if I wasn't that interested. Women are the same as men in some, but very few ways. We do't know how to tell someone we are not interested, so we play these little games to get them to back out. And then, when you do back off, she will come around and want to know what the deal is...

 

[phillyb]

awesome

thanks for the responses......



Honestly, I dont want a relationship with this chick. I just want to go have a good time and possibly get some scroggin' outta the deal. However, these busted dates add up, and it gets old.


I guess we'll see..


laterZ

phil

 

[al77]

Originally posted by AIR-PILOT
She is immature I agree...
She likes you because you are older etc etc.
This to me equals SEX.
Bang her and leave her.

Hm, dont you have some allergy for immature FLAKY girls?

Besides he may like sex with her.. and hot himself into trouble of being with the flaky chick...just NEXT her.

 

[Hemingway]

I admire her for her ****y behavior. I love it. Here's what we should do:

1) IM a girl, asking her if she'd like to to do something the following night.

2) The next night call and say you just need to get a shower and shave.

3) Call back and cancel, saying you are dead tired, and ask for a rain-check.

4) Later that night, IM again and ask for a booty call.

 

[AIR-PILOT]

Originally posted by al77
Hm, dont you have some allergy for immature FLAKY girls?

Besides he may like sex with her.. and hot himself into trouble of being with the flaky chick...just NEXT her.

Nope, I went out with the chick...
The chick had a bf for 2 years and she broke up a month ago. I didn't know that ..thats why she is holding back.