"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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20 year old baldcel laments

MatureDJ

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my opinion: There are some men that can pull off being being a cue-ball, but the "cute" (as opposed to ruggedly handsome) ones really need a good head of hair to pull it off. It's over for him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As you say if your "cute" and bald it almost always looks bad but I know quite a few bald guys who do just fine with girls.
Being bald isn't a bonus but there's plenty of girls out there they can get.
A lot of bald guys seem to think though that having no hair is the only reason they aren't getting any which is obviously wrong.
They will always have a chance though lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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my opinion: There are some men that can pull off being being a cue-ball, but the "cute" (as opposed to ruggedly handsome) ones really need a good head of hair to pull it off. It's over for him.
Dude.. You need a job, hobby or something. You have way too much time on your hands to "research" this stuff.
 

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If he’s able to grow some decent facial hair it would help him out a bit going forward. The odds are stacked against him, but not all hope is lost.
 

MatureDJ

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Dude.. You need a job, hobby or something. You have way too much time on your hands to "research" this stuff.
I'm "early retired". :cool: And it's not like I go researching stuff; I read a lot of stuff and only share it here if I think it is of interest.
 

deadmasterx

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The cure for baldness is a ripped body and a viking beard along with a thick confident imperative voice. With that you can be even more attractive than most guys. Be her "daddy".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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