"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MatureDJ

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my opinion: There are some men that can pull off being being a cue-ball, but the "cute" (as opposed to ruggedly handsome) ones really need a good head of hair to pull it off. It's over for him.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As you say if your "cute" and bald it almost always looks bad but I know quite a few bald guys who do just fine with girls.
Being bald isn't a bonus but there's plenty of girls out there they can get.
A lot of bald guys seem to think though that having no hair is the only reason they aren't getting any which is obviously wrong.
They will always have a chance though lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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my opinion: There are some men that can pull off being being a cue-ball, but the "cute" (as opposed to ruggedly handsome) ones really need a good head of hair to pull it off. It's over for him.
Dude.. You need a job, hobby or something. You have way too much time on your hands to "research" this stuff.
 

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If he’s able to grow some decent facial hair it would help him out a bit going forward. The odds are stacked against him, but not all hope is lost.
 

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Dude.. You need a job, hobby or something. You have way too much time on your hands to "research" this stuff.
I'm "early retired". :cool: And it's not like I go researching stuff; I read a lot of stuff and only share it here if I think it is of interest.
 

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The cure for baldness is a ripped body and a viking beard along with a thick confident imperative voice. With that you can be even more attractive than most guys. Be her "daddy".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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