I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why are they voting for Trump?I agree Asmodeus.
The reality is refugees would stop at the first country they arrived at. These are not true refugees, they are invaders.
You were completely accurate in identifying they want as much "free $hit" as possible. These are not the actions of refugees, they are of moochers and invaders.
The home was already a garbage heapThat place was my family's home and it is turning into a garbage heap. I understand the plight of war and the desire to escape it and make a better life for oneself. I am not going to be a hypocrite, my own family are immigrants to America. But this is creating a massive strain, and a ton of problems. They are fleeing for a better life, but they are destroying the lives of other people's in the process.
I can only imagine how bad it is, or will be, in places where they actually are seeking to stay in. I consider America my home, and I do not want my home to end up like how my family's home has ended up with all these refugees turning it into a garbage heap.
Hungary already closed off their borders, Croatia is starting to do the same and literally laying down walls and barbed wire. Serbia was originally welcoming to let the immigrants pass through but sentiment is already growing to toss them out and close up the Balkan backdoor. I hope that that happens...
http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2015/9/3/resentment-of-refugees-builds-on-serbian-border.html
It was a garbage heap, idiot.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This is obviously the same troll (woman) who uses the term 'dipsh1t' in her posts.It was a garbage heap, idiot.