Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why are they voting for Trump?I agree Asmodeus.
The reality is refugees would stop at the first country they arrived at. These are not true refugees, they are invaders.
You were completely accurate in identifying they want as much "free $hit" as possible. These are not the actions of refugees, they are of moochers and invaders.
The home was already a garbage heapThat place was my family's home and it is turning into a garbage heap. I understand the plight of war and the desire to escape it and make a better life for oneself. I am not going to be a hypocrite, my own family are immigrants to America. But this is creating a massive strain, and a ton of problems. They are fleeing for a better life, but they are destroying the lives of other people's in the process.
I can only imagine how bad it is, or will be, in places where they actually are seeking to stay in. I consider America my home, and I do not want my home to end up like how my family's home has ended up with all these refugees turning it into a garbage heap.
Hungary already closed off their borders, Croatia is starting to do the same and literally laying down walls and barbed wire. Serbia was originally welcoming to let the immigrants pass through but sentiment is already growing to toss them out and close up the Balkan backdoor. I hope that that happens...
http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2015/9/3/resentment-of-refugees-builds-on-serbian-border.html
It was a garbage heap, idiot.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This is obviously the same troll (woman) who uses the term 'dipsh1t' in her posts.It was a garbage heap, idiot.