You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why are they voting for Trump?I agree Asmodeus.
The reality is refugees would stop at the first country they arrived at. These are not true refugees, they are invaders.
You were completely accurate in identifying they want as much "free $hit" as possible. These are not the actions of refugees, they are of moochers and invaders.
The home was already a garbage heapThat place was my family's home and it is turning into a garbage heap. I understand the plight of war and the desire to escape it and make a better life for oneself. I am not going to be a hypocrite, my own family are immigrants to America. But this is creating a massive strain, and a ton of problems. They are fleeing for a better life, but they are destroying the lives of other people's in the process.
I can only imagine how bad it is, or will be, in places where they actually are seeking to stay in. I consider America my home, and I do not want my home to end up like how my family's home has ended up with all these refugees turning it into a garbage heap.
Hungary already closed off their borders, Croatia is starting to do the same and literally laying down walls and barbed wire. Serbia was originally welcoming to let the immigrants pass through but sentiment is already growing to toss them out and close up the Balkan backdoor. I hope that that happens...
http://america.aljazeera.com/articles/2015/9/3/resentment-of-refugees-builds-on-serbian-border.html
It was a garbage heap, idiot.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is obviously the same troll (woman) who uses the term 'dipsh1t' in her posts.It was a garbage heap, idiot.