"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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20 aproaches by summer break

DR Chillz

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I have made a goal for myself to make 20 aproaches on women before summer vaction. If this is in the wrong section please move it.

If you see something I should do diffrently or just want to give me some encourgement you can do so.

I must get 5 numbers/ or some action out of the 20. I will keep going untill I get 5 witch shouldnt be a problem. Keep in mind Im a freshman in highschool so I cant go to the club bar mall ect when ever I feel like.

The requirements

Must be hot

Never have talked to her

Within 2 years of my age
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jay Jay

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Umm. If you haven't approached before a 25% number close goal might be a bit high (you'll actually find that you will probably only WANT 25% of their numbers).

Advice?

Get started. Approach! Do it! Thats the main thing; doing it.

Be self critical. When you fail look at what you did wrong. When you succeed figure out why.

If you hit massive road blocks then ask for more advise.

Oh! And go to charisma arts http://www.charismaarts.com/ They have this free email training thing. Their stuff on approaching is the best I've come across.

JJ
 

DR Chillz

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Thanks for the posts they will definalty help me out

Dam, I want to go get some numbers tomorow, I could always hit up the supermarket lol jk. I will try to hang out with some friends tomorow maybe go catch a bite to eat in a diffrent town...
 

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25% closing ration? With no experience, good luck.

Just approach as much as you can, whenever you can.

After many years of practice, some nights I still can't close 25% of the girls i talk to. In most cases I close 100% though (as in I close 1 girl for the night...)
 

DR Chillz

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Well I am not makeing a ratio goal, I must ask 20 girls and have 5 give me there number If I get to 20 and dont have 5 numbers Im gonna keep going. I forogt to mention I have gotten a number before. Actually I think I have been asked for my number more then I have asked.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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