"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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20 aproaches by summer break

DR Chillz

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I have made a goal for myself to make 20 aproaches on women before summer vaction. If this is in the wrong section please move it.

If you see something I should do diffrently or just want to give me some encourgement you can do so.

I must get 5 numbers/ or some action out of the 20. I will keep going untill I get 5 witch shouldnt be a problem. Keep in mind Im a freshman in highschool so I cant go to the club bar mall ect when ever I feel like.

The requirements

Must be hot

Never have talked to her

Within 2 years of my age
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jay Jay

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Umm. If you haven't approached before a 25% number close goal might be a bit high (you'll actually find that you will probably only WANT 25% of their numbers).

Advice?

Get started. Approach! Do it! Thats the main thing; doing it.

Be self critical. When you fail look at what you did wrong. When you succeed figure out why.

If you hit massive road blocks then ask for more advise.

Oh! And go to charisma arts http://www.charismaarts.com/ They have this free email training thing. Their stuff on approaching is the best I've come across.

JJ
 

DR Chillz

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Thanks for the posts they will definalty help me out

Dam, I want to go get some numbers tomorow, I could always hit up the supermarket lol jk. I will try to hang out with some friends tomorow maybe go catch a bite to eat in a diffrent town...
 

ExploringOne

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25% closing ration? With no experience, good luck.

Just approach as much as you can, whenever you can.

After many years of practice, some nights I still can't close 25% of the girls i talk to. In most cases I close 100% though (as in I close 1 girl for the night...)
 

DR Chillz

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Well I am not makeing a ratio goal, I must ask 20 girls and have 5 give me there number If I get to 20 and dont have 5 numbers Im gonna keep going. I forogt to mention I have gotten a number before. Actually I think I have been asked for my number more then I have asked.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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