"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2 weeks?

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I've hung out with this girl real casually for about 3 weeks. Now her IL is through the roof and I figures this weekend I felt like doing other things, we don't need to get together every week.
But she's going to be away the weekend coming up. I'm in classes with this girl every single day. I don't want to go through 2 whole weeks till I've got time to see her outside of class. By that time who knows what'll happen, it could cool off, we could get bored of always seeing eachother in class, whatever. This screws up some great momentum.

So, I'm wondering, have you guys ever had to deal with circumstances where everything's going fine and then you have to drag it out due to unforeseen events? And does it usually work out for you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Take her to lunch or something on one of the weekend days, be busy the other one.

Have you kissed her yet? Now would be a good time to do so if you haven't.

The more a woman has invested in you, the more apt she is to stick with you. Meaning, the more you can escalate physically, the better off you will be going two weeks without seeing her.
 

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Vypros said:
The more a woman has invested in you, the more apt she is to stick with you. Meaning, the more you can escalate physically, the better off you will be going two weeks without seeing her.


Yes! Also, don't be afraid to talk to other girls in your classes... she'll become even more interested in you because she'll see you as the prize.
 

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alright, see the thing is we don't have same lunches or any of that. I will see her for many days but every time it'll be some sort of in-class scenario where that whole friendship angle can develop instead of what I want to develop...
 
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