"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've hung out with this girl real casually for about 3 weeks. Now her IL is through the roof and I figures this weekend I felt like doing other things, we don't need to get together every week.
But she's going to be away the weekend coming up. I'm in classes with this girl every single day. I don't want to go through 2 whole weeks till I've got time to see her outside of class. By that time who knows what'll happen, it could cool off, we could get bored of always seeing eachother in class, whatever. This screws up some great momentum.

So, I'm wondering, have you guys ever had to deal with circumstances where everything's going fine and then you have to drag it out due to unforeseen events? And does it usually work out for you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Take her to lunch or something on one of the weekend days, be busy the other one.

Have you kissed her yet? Now would be a good time to do so if you haven't.

The more a woman has invested in you, the more apt she is to stick with you. Meaning, the more you can escalate physically, the better off you will be going two weeks without seeing her.
 
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Vypros said:
The more a woman has invested in you, the more apt she is to stick with you. Meaning, the more you can escalate physically, the better off you will be going two weeks without seeing her.
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Yes! Also, don't be afraid to talk to other girls in your classes... she'll become even more interested in you because she'll see you as the prize.
 
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alright, see the thing is we don't have same lunches or any of that. I will see her for many days but every time it'll be some sort of in-class scenario where that whole friendship angle can develop instead of what I want to develop...
 
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