Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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2 weekends ago i got a girls number.

Packers2010

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the past 4 weeks it's been a roller coaster.

4 weeks ago i got the cold and was in bed. for a week. then i hit it up hard over the long weekend we had. i got a girls number then. which was cool.

so i have been texting here.. but it's slowed down a little. i did ask her out early on ( i was talking with my wing. he said strike while the iron is hot) but it didn't pay off.

she has SOME level of interest because i get good responses every time i text her. the only problem is i'm still sick. i MIGHT be able to go out this weekend. last weekend i stayed home and tried to get better ( school is the most important thing now. i need to stay healthy for that)

would you give up on this number now. our last text was. last friday.

looking back our messaging has been on and off and since i been sick she will message and i will reply like 6 hours later cos i am busy lol

i;m thinking of just giving up on her cos i don't really feel it. though the way the interaction went when i was talking her. i'm surprised she lasted a week texting me. i mostly get 2 days out of them.. then they flake.

IN OTHER NEWS

i'll be out of my house sooner then i think. if i don't mind an apartment this house will be sold so. it could be like october this year. if not earlier.

i'm also going to start a journal. just to piss you all off cos i am so awesome!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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zinc4

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IMO you should only be texting to set up dates
 
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