"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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2 weekends ago i got a girls number.

Packers2010

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the past 4 weeks it's been a roller coaster.

4 weeks ago i got the cold and was in bed. for a week. then i hit it up hard over the long weekend we had. i got a girls number then. which was cool.

so i have been texting here.. but it's slowed down a little. i did ask her out early on ( i was talking with my wing. he said strike while the iron is hot) but it didn't pay off.

she has SOME level of interest because i get good responses every time i text her. the only problem is i'm still sick. i MIGHT be able to go out this weekend. last weekend i stayed home and tried to get better ( school is the most important thing now. i need to stay healthy for that)

would you give up on this number now. our last text was. last friday.

looking back our messaging has been on and off and since i been sick she will message and i will reply like 6 hours later cos i am busy lol

i;m thinking of just giving up on her cos i don't really feel it. though the way the interaction went when i was talking her. i'm surprised she lasted a week texting me. i mostly get 2 days out of them.. then they flake.

IN OTHER NEWS

i'll be out of my house sooner then i think. if i don't mind an apartment this house will be sold so. it could be like october this year. if not earlier.

i'm also going to start a journal. just to piss you all off cos i am so awesome!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zinc4

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IMO you should only be texting to set up dates
 
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