"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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2 tips for newbies.

Papi Jack

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Well i actually have 2 tips that i consider mine because i have not copied them from anybody else, though i know that most probably somebody, somewhere is using them too. So, here they go...

1.)PAY ATTENTION of what you do during the day. Try to "record" all what you say and you do*. At the end of the day "rewind" the movie and review it several times. You'll be amazed how much you can learn from it. It a lot easier to see your screw up's that way.:D

2.)I'm sure it happens to all of us when we're newbies. We always worry about if our tecniques are working or not. How do i know if they're working? Did she buy it or not? Damm i'm being too pushy! Should i use some kino? And all that kind of crap. So...

Tip 2.0: Give yourself a mental bytchslap and get a grip.

Tip 2.1: Say to yourself "IT'S ALL ABOUT PRACTICING" your main concern right now is to learn how to use the tecniques and if you screw up go to tip 1. :D

Alright guys... Hope you liked it.
C ya'll.



*: also what she says and do... well mostly what she does :D



PS: Have in mind my english is not the best. :mad: :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dukester

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ya, those are good tips. i use them too, and they are pretty much written in stone. i think the DJ Bible has something along those lines in there. It's good advice, and I agree w/ ya 100%
 
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