"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 tips for newbies.

Papi Jack

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Well i actually have 2 tips that i consider mine because i have not copied them from anybody else, though i know that most probably somebody, somewhere is using them too. So, here they go...

1.)PAY ATTENTION of what you do during the day. Try to "record" all what you say and you do*. At the end of the day "rewind" the movie and review it several times. You'll be amazed how much you can learn from it. It a lot easier to see your screw up's that way.:D

2.)I'm sure it happens to all of us when we're newbies. We always worry about if our tecniques are working or not. How do i know if they're working? Did she buy it or not? Damm i'm being too pushy! Should i use some kino? And all that kind of crap. So...

Tip 2.0: Give yourself a mental bytchslap and get a grip.

Tip 2.1: Say to yourself "IT'S ALL ABOUT PRACTICING" your main concern right now is to learn how to use the tecniques and if you screw up go to tip 1. :D

Alright guys... Hope you liked it.
C ya'll.



*: also what she says and do... well mostly what she does :D



PS: Have in mind my english is not the best. :mad: :(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dukester

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ya, those are good tips. i use them too, and they are pretty much written in stone. i think the DJ Bible has something along those lines in there. It's good advice, and I agree w/ ya 100%
 
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