"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My brother, cousin, sister and her friends, and I went bowling last night. My sister and her friends left early so it was just my brother, my cousin, and I. Well, I asked some girls over to our lane and we started to flirt some, but my cousin didn't partake in trying to get some cause he's shy. I tried to be a great wingman to him, but he wouldn't talk to them for NOTHING. Well, I got a number and gave my number in return and so did my brother. My brother never called his catch cause, well, he has a woman. However, my catch had her number jacked from her stepsister (who was also there).

My two questions are:

1) How do I help my cousin out of his shell?
2) Do I try to hook up with the stepsister even though she stole the number? I feel that if I do, I'd be a bad guy.
NOTE: THE STEPSISTER IS EQUALLY HOT
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why do you want to hook up with your stepsister?
Your story is confusing.

Your a smart guy, think this through on your own.
 
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1. Do it ONLY if he asks for your help. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
2. Talk to both of them! make them compete over you :)
 
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Five To One said:
Why do you want to hook up with your stepsister?
Your story is confusing.

Your a smart guy, think this through on your own.
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HER step sister took it
 
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