"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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CP3WOO

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Ok...

My brother, cousin, sister and her friends, and I went bowling last night. My sister and her friends left early so it was just my brother, my cousin, and I. Well, I asked some girls over to our lane and we started to flirt some, but my cousin didn't partake in trying to get some cause he's shy. I tried to be a great wingman to him, but he wouldn't talk to them for NOTHING. Well, I got a number and gave my number in return and so did my brother. My brother never called his catch cause, well, he has a woman. However, my catch had her number jacked from her stepsister (who was also there).

My two questions are:

1) How do I help my cousin out of his shell?
2) Do I try to hook up with the stepsister even though she stole the number? I feel that if I do, I'd be a bad guy.
NOTE: THE STEPSISTER IS EQUALLY HOT
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Five To One

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Why do you want to hook up with your stepsister?
Your story is confusing.

Your a smart guy, think this through on your own.
 

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1. Do it ONLY if he asks for your help. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
2. Talk to both of them! make them compete over you :)
 

CP3WOO

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Five To One said:
Why do you want to hook up with your stepsister?
Your story is confusing.

Your a smart guy, think this through on your own.
HER step sister took it
 
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