"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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2 questions about sarging at the mall.

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ElStud

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Okay, so I'm at the mall today and I just couldn't get myself to approach any girls. One problem was that I was afraid of approaching moving targets, why? I have no idea how I would slow them down or make them stop walking period. How would you DJs approach a moving target and make her stop for you? I'd like to know what you guys would do. Second thing is I don't know what to say if a girl is just standing there in a shop looking around.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is what I usually do at the mall with a moving target and it works for me. I would walk up to the girl, touch her on the arm and tell her "Hi, I think you're pretty." or any direct opener. Remember, you have to express it confidently and be relax the whole time. Bodylanguage plays a pretty big role when you go direct. Not that I'm saying direct approaches is the best but it's the only effective way to really make a woman stop and committed into a convo with you. We can leave indirect and opinion opener at home for now. Those are good at a place where girls are sitting.
 
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