"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2 questions about sarging at the mall.

ElStud

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Okay, so I'm at the mall today and I just couldn't get myself to approach any girls. One problem was that I was afraid of approaching moving targets, why? I have no idea how I would slow them down or make them stop walking period. How would you DJs approach a moving target and make her stop for you? I'd like to know what you guys would do. Second thing is I don't know what to say if a girl is just standing there in a shop looking around.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

greenlake

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This is what I usually do at the mall with a moving target and it works for me. I would walk up to the girl, touch her on the arm and tell her "Hi, I think you're pretty." or any direct opener. Remember, you have to express it confidently and be relax the whole time. Bodylanguage plays a pretty big role when you go direct. Not that I'm saying direct approaches is the best but it's the only effective way to really make a woman stop and committed into a convo with you. We can leave indirect and opinion opener at home for now. Those are good at a place where girls are sitting.
 
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