"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 questions about sarging at the mall.

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ElStud

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Okay, so I'm at the mall today and I just couldn't get myself to approach any girls. One problem was that I was afraid of approaching moving targets, why? I have no idea how I would slow them down or make them stop walking period. How would you DJs approach a moving target and make her stop for you? I'd like to know what you guys would do. Second thing is I don't know what to say if a girl is just standing there in a shop looking around.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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This is what I usually do at the mall with a moving target and it works for me. I would walk up to the girl, touch her on the arm and tell her "Hi, I think you're pretty." or any direct opener. Remember, you have to express it confidently and be relax the whole time. Bodylanguage plays a pretty big role when you go direct. Not that I'm saying direct approaches is the best but it's the only effective way to really make a woman stop and committed into a convo with you. We can leave indirect and opinion opener at home for now. Those are good at a place where girls are sitting.
 
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