AlmostThere!
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The thread on handling these two plates...and my results if any.
Alright, you guys know that I *had* trouble with attraction. But after last night, I proven to myself that I am a good looking guy and girls like talking to me.
Due to my socializing at a singles event last night, I got two potentials. I didn't even go there expecting anything. I just went there to have fun.
Before I get into the details...I'm 25 and everybody thinks I'm 18-21. The one girl I will tell you about said "at first glance, I thought you were in high school or a college freshman". But it seems like girls don't care how youing I look after they talk to me because I obviously have a mature 25 year old mind. They can tell by the way I communicate. It also seems like older women (25 - early 30's) are more attracted to me than younger girls. Maybe at this time in my life, I should just mack on older females?
Girl 1:
Asian (HB7.5). Petite. Lives in my city. She was the third girl which my key opened her lock. We talked throughout the party (but I made sure to go around and chat with other people). About 3/4 way throughout the party, I suggest we exchange numbers. She didn't have her phone on her, it was in her coat, but she gave me her number. (Could be something to that) When the event was over, we met up again and talked some more (about another 25 minutes).
Girl 1:
POSITIVES:
* She asked me questions about myself. I found out her brother works for the same company as I do.
* She touched me several times (and I touched her)
* She made jokes, and laughed at my jokes
* A girl I know from Dodgeball was there and she gave me a social boost
NEGATIVES:
* No opportunity to isolate for more comfort building (may bite me in the ass when I go to call her)
Girl 2:
Indian. HB7. 5'7'' and slender. Lives an hour away. She was there with four friends. Everytime I got a new key, I kept trying her lock but it never worked. But I made conversation with her anyway. About halfway through the event, I come back to her table and she asks do I know any good places to go dancing. I asked are you trying to go dancing tonight, and she replied "yeah, you wanna come along?". Anyway, after talking to Girl 1 at the end of the event, I went to go find Girl 2. We exchanged numbers and decided on a place.
I met up with Girl 2 and her friend (whom I thought would be a ****block after reading so much PUA material). Her friend wasn't a hottie and overweight, but she turned out to be really cool (and I think she accepted me which is important).
We stop at one place, but there wasn't much dancing going on. Her friend buys me a drink. BTW, this happens anytime I *have* went out with a girl or girls. They always buy ME a drink and don't want any money. So, her friend buys me a drink and we just stand around and chat for about an hour. We then decide to find another place which we walked to.
Second place was better. As soon as we walk in and after the coat check, we're going up the stairway and they go to the bar. What happens again? This time Girl 2 buys me, her friend, and herself a drink. I just got a beer. I go for my wallet and she's like "no that's okay, im just gonna put it on my car". I don't know if I'm failing some type of test or girls I ever hang out with are the AFCs buying drinks...but I don't think I come across as cheap.
Anyway, the musis is popping and Girl 2 and I head to the dance floor. To make a long story short, we dance for like 2 hours. Throughtout the night, she grabbed my hands, grinded, my hands on her hips and ass, we got real close and just moved to the music with her head on my shoulder, lots of eye contact and smiling, and a few times she brought my hands to her breasts.
Her friend was at the bar looking lonely, so I went over there and led her to the dance floor. She seemed happy I did this, and so did Girl 2.
2:15 in the morning, Girl 2 has to drive herself and her friend back home which is one hour away. We decide to leave. Walk back to her car. Out of earshot, her friend says you sit in the front so you can give her a kiss good night. She drives me back to my car, lean over to kiss and got cheek and corner of mouth.
POSITIVES:
* She invited me out dancing
* Her friend likes me (meaning I pass the friend test)
* Comfortable with touching each other
* Lots of smiles, eye contact while dancing
NEGATIVES:
* She lives an hour away (but doesn't mind coming down to the city)
* Cheek kiss (may not be a negative. I haven't dated enough girls to know if this is acceptable).
My MAIN question is, how would you, as a professional mack, go about contacting these girls again? What would you plan of action be?
And feel free to point out stuff in my post, or make random comments.
Alright, you guys know that I *had* trouble with attraction. But after last night, I proven to myself that I am a good looking guy and girls like talking to me.
Due to my socializing at a singles event last night, I got two potentials. I didn't even go there expecting anything. I just went there to have fun.
Before I get into the details...I'm 25 and everybody thinks I'm 18-21. The one girl I will tell you about said "at first glance, I thought you were in high school or a college freshman". But it seems like girls don't care how youing I look after they talk to me because I obviously have a mature 25 year old mind. They can tell by the way I communicate. It also seems like older women (25 - early 30's) are more attracted to me than younger girls. Maybe at this time in my life, I should just mack on older females?
Girl 1:
Asian (HB7.5). Petite. Lives in my city. She was the third girl which my key opened her lock. We talked throughout the party (but I made sure to go around and chat with other people). About 3/4 way throughout the party, I suggest we exchange numbers. She didn't have her phone on her, it was in her coat, but she gave me her number. (Could be something to that) When the event was over, we met up again and talked some more (about another 25 minutes).
Girl 1:
POSITIVES:
* She asked me questions about myself. I found out her brother works for the same company as I do.
* She touched me several times (and I touched her)
* She made jokes, and laughed at my jokes
* A girl I know from Dodgeball was there and she gave me a social boost
NEGATIVES:
* No opportunity to isolate for more comfort building (may bite me in the ass when I go to call her)
Girl 2:
Indian. HB7. 5'7'' and slender. Lives an hour away. She was there with four friends. Everytime I got a new key, I kept trying her lock but it never worked. But I made conversation with her anyway. About halfway through the event, I come back to her table and she asks do I know any good places to go dancing. I asked are you trying to go dancing tonight, and she replied "yeah, you wanna come along?". Anyway, after talking to Girl 1 at the end of the event, I went to go find Girl 2. We exchanged numbers and decided on a place.
I met up with Girl 2 and her friend (whom I thought would be a ****block after reading so much PUA material). Her friend wasn't a hottie and overweight, but she turned out to be really cool (and I think she accepted me which is important).
We stop at one place, but there wasn't much dancing going on. Her friend buys me a drink. BTW, this happens anytime I *have* went out with a girl or girls. They always buy ME a drink and don't want any money. So, her friend buys me a drink and we just stand around and chat for about an hour. We then decide to find another place which we walked to.
Second place was better. As soon as we walk in and after the coat check, we're going up the stairway and they go to the bar. What happens again? This time Girl 2 buys me, her friend, and herself a drink. I just got a beer. I go for my wallet and she's like "no that's okay, im just gonna put it on my car". I don't know if I'm failing some type of test or girls I ever hang out with are the AFCs buying drinks...but I don't think I come across as cheap.
Anyway, the musis is popping and Girl 2 and I head to the dance floor. To make a long story short, we dance for like 2 hours. Throughtout the night, she grabbed my hands, grinded, my hands on her hips and ass, we got real close and just moved to the music with her head on my shoulder, lots of eye contact and smiling, and a few times she brought my hands to her breasts.
Her friend was at the bar looking lonely, so I went over there and led her to the dance floor. She seemed happy I did this, and so did Girl 2.
2:15 in the morning, Girl 2 has to drive herself and her friend back home which is one hour away. We decide to leave. Walk back to her car. Out of earshot, her friend says you sit in the front so you can give her a kiss good night. She drives me back to my car, lean over to kiss and got cheek and corner of mouth.
POSITIVES:
* She invited me out dancing
* Her friend likes me (meaning I pass the friend test)
* Comfortable with touching each other
* Lots of smiles, eye contact while dancing
NEGATIVES:
* She lives an hour away (but doesn't mind coming down to the city)
* Cheek kiss (may not be a negative. I haven't dated enough girls to know if this is acceptable).
My MAIN question is, how would you, as a professional mack, go about contacting these girls again? What would you plan of action be?
And feel free to point out stuff in my post, or make random comments.
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