"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2 positives n i get handed a neg

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So I start hanging with these grls i met off the net. The 1 I liked online I didnt like in person (only as a friend). Been friends with them all for a few months now. Have been my Don Juan self around them. I attracted the grl I met 1st off n 1 of her friends who i realy like. Problem is, it's her best friend. See where this is going?

Why cant things be straight forward?

Anyone got ne idea how I should play this?

I was thinking of setting her up?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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great oneitis kicking in.
 
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bump
 
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God help ye man who taketh thy womans best friend.

I havent seen it work yet......I suggest keep them all around, but look around for more options. But dont put too much time into these ones
 
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One thing, women are never straight forward. So dont expect any direct opinions from them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haha.

Well i talked to the 1 i like and we were talking about it. I ended up saying ok its cool and when im rejected I just force myself to move on and say next. She was saying she does like me and hasnt rejected me and asked me to give her some time, which I agreed to. I told her that I had to get it off my chest and not live with regret.
 
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