"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2 positives n i get handed a neg

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So I start hanging with these grls i met off the net. The 1 I liked online I didnt like in person (only as a friend). Been friends with them all for a few months now. Have been my Don Juan self around them. I attracted the grl I met 1st off n 1 of her friends who i realy like. Problem is, it's her best friend. See where this is going?

Why cant things be straight forward?

Anyone got ne idea how I should play this?

I was thinking of setting her up?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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great oneitis kicking in.
 

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bump
 

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God help ye man who taketh thy womans best friend.

I havent seen it work yet......I suggest keep them all around, but look around for more options. But dont put too much time into these ones
 

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One thing, women are never straight forward. So dont expect any direct opinions from them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha.

Well i talked to the 1 i like and we were talking about it. I ended up saying ok its cool and when im rejected I just force myself to move on and say next. She was saying she does like me and hasnt rejected me and asked me to give her some time, which I agreed to. I told her that I had to get it off my chest and not live with regret.
 
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