"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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2 months to get the girl i deserve

Hockey Playa

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2 girls at my uni barely know i exist. I have made no effort to initiate convo or anything with these girls. These 2 girls are perfect for my GF material. I would make a great BF with either of these 2. Were about equal in hotness id say. These girls are solid 7.5 - 8's. The problem, is i just cant bring myself to do a random convo with them, i always aim for girls lower than me cause im not that a confident, and there are some flaws about me, which makes me very self conscious

I am going to devise a 2 month plan to make sure im in tip top shape for September to give me best stab at one of these 2 girls.

Self improvement list:

-Gym 4 times a week (already in progress)
-read 4-6 books
-Teeth professionally whitened
-Getting a job in customer service, which should with convo skills
-Minimize or eliminate gaming(computer games)
-Laser hair removal hair in unwanted places..chest abs..
-Practice sex with lower level broads to work on skills
-Eat a clean diet


thats all i can think of at the moment, fell free to add suggestions. I havent had a gf in 2 years.(i aim high). I want this to work. I know some of my improvement may seem vein but, when i look good, my confidence sky rockets.
I will update this thread hopefully i stick to it, and i should have my girl!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't be such a wuss, forget about the two month plan and grow some balls and cold approach these two girls, then if they reject your advances you can learn from it and move on, if you don't some other fat ugly cvnt who does have the balls to approach them will already be fvcking them, never put off what you can do today until tomorrow.
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Don't be such a wuss, forget about the two month plan and grow some balls and cold approach these two girls, then if they reject your advances you can learn from it and move on, if you don't some other fat ugly cvnt who does have the balls to approach them will already be fvcking them, never put off what you can do today until tomorrow.

Exactly, pretend like you only have a week to live. What would u do? Wait 2 months? Aside from emptying your bank account and spending every last dollar, live your life like there is no tomorrow. Whacha got to lose?
 

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I agree with the above. Here is what I think will happen to your plan.

-Gym 4 times a week (already in progress) - You'll get impatient and stop going so often.
-Teeth professionally whitened - You'll wonder why no one notices your pearly whites and wonder why you wasted your money.
-Getting a job in customer service, which should with convo skills- you'll hate it and quite.
-Laser hair removal hair in unwanted places..chest abs.. - This is just lame and I hope you don't do it.
-Practice sex with lower level broads to work on skills - What makes you think you'll get these "lower" level broads?
 
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Hockey Playa said:
Self improvement list:

-Gym 4 times a week (already in progress)
-read 4-6 books
-Teeth professionally whitened
-Getting a job in customer service, which should with convo skills
-Minimize or eliminate gaming(computer games)
-Laser hair removal hair in unwanted places..chest abs..
-Practice sex with lower level broads to work on skills
-Eat a clean diet
You should be doing this for yourself, not some damn chick.

Why do you need some girl to make you want to treat yourself right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you know these girls are GF material if you've never held a conversation with either of them?
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Don't be such a wuss, forget about the two month plan and grow some balls and cold approach these two girls, then if they reject your advances you can learn from it and move on, if you don't some other fat ugly cvnt who does have the balls to approach them will already be fvcking them, never put off what you can do today until tomorrow.
Couldn't type it fast enough. DO IT TODAY!
 

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Sounds cool...just make sure if you actually go through with your plan and become the man you wish you were!

BTW on the teeth whitening.... I got mine whitened and it makes a HELL of a difference! A nice smile goes along way, so i would encourage you to go ahead with that..it will not be unrecognized!

BTW- don't tell everyone you got them whitened, just say you got them polished and started brushing them more...the stigma attached to teeth whitening is one of vanity and to be brutally honest...NOT COOL
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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