"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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2 months to get the girl i deserve

Hockey Playa

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2 girls at my uni barely know i exist. I have made no effort to initiate convo or anything with these girls. These 2 girls are perfect for my GF material. I would make a great BF with either of these 2. Were about equal in hotness id say. These girls are solid 7.5 - 8's. The problem, is i just cant bring myself to do a random convo with them, i always aim for girls lower than me cause im not that a confident, and there are some flaws about me, which makes me very self conscious

I am going to devise a 2 month plan to make sure im in tip top shape for September to give me best stab at one of these 2 girls.

Self improvement list:

-Gym 4 times a week (already in progress)
-read 4-6 books
-Teeth professionally whitened
-Getting a job in customer service, which should with convo skills
-Minimize or eliminate gaming(computer games)
-Laser hair removal hair in unwanted places..chest abs..
-Practice sex with lower level broads to work on skills
-Eat a clean diet


thats all i can think of at the moment, fell free to add suggestions. I havent had a gf in 2 years.(i aim high). I want this to work. I know some of my improvement may seem vein but, when i look good, my confidence sky rockets.
I will update this thread hopefully i stick to it, and i should have my girl!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't be such a wuss, forget about the two month plan and grow some balls and cold approach these two girls, then if they reject your advances you can learn from it and move on, if you don't some other fat ugly cvnt who does have the balls to approach them will already be fvcking them, never put off what you can do today until tomorrow.
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Don't be such a wuss, forget about the two month plan and grow some balls and cold approach these two girls, then if they reject your advances you can learn from it and move on, if you don't some other fat ugly cvnt who does have the balls to approach them will already be fvcking them, never put off what you can do today until tomorrow.

Exactly, pretend like you only have a week to live. What would u do? Wait 2 months? Aside from emptying your bank account and spending every last dollar, live your life like there is no tomorrow. Whacha got to lose?
 

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I agree with the above. Here is what I think will happen to your plan.

-Gym 4 times a week (already in progress) - You'll get impatient and stop going so often.
-Teeth professionally whitened - You'll wonder why no one notices your pearly whites and wonder why you wasted your money.
-Getting a job in customer service, which should with convo skills- you'll hate it and quite.
-Laser hair removal hair in unwanted places..chest abs.. - This is just lame and I hope you don't do it.
-Practice sex with lower level broads to work on skills - What makes you think you'll get these "lower" level broads?
 
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Hockey Playa said:
Self improvement list:

-Gym 4 times a week (already in progress)
-read 4-6 books
-Teeth professionally whitened
-Getting a job in customer service, which should with convo skills
-Minimize or eliminate gaming(computer games)
-Laser hair removal hair in unwanted places..chest abs..
-Practice sex with lower level broads to work on skills
-Eat a clean diet
You should be doing this for yourself, not some damn chick.

Why do you need some girl to make you want to treat yourself right?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you know these girls are GF material if you've never held a conversation with either of them?
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Don't be such a wuss, forget about the two month plan and grow some balls and cold approach these two girls, then if they reject your advances you can learn from it and move on, if you don't some other fat ugly cvnt who does have the balls to approach them will already be fvcking them, never put off what you can do today until tomorrow.
Couldn't type it fast enough. DO IT TODAY!
 

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Sounds cool...just make sure if you actually go through with your plan and become the man you wish you were!

BTW on the teeth whitening.... I got mine whitened and it makes a HELL of a difference! A nice smile goes along way, so i would encourage you to go ahead with that..it will not be unrecognized!

BTW- don't tell everyone you got them whitened, just say you got them polished and started brushing them more...the stigma attached to teeth whitening is one of vanity and to be brutally honest...NOT COOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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