"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 in the room and not a clue

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So i had 2 chicks together in the same room. One of them was a friend and the other was a friend of the friend.

We were all sitting on my bed and watching a movie... a comedy and i got the idea of making out with both of them.

I wanted to bring it up at some point but i didnt want it to seem out of the blue or anything like that.

So i just waited till it was over.

When it finished i wanted to mention making out and see if they would be up for it but then they said that they had to do a lot of stuff tomorrow and leave town for college.

So i didnt want to mention it there because they aer already telling me its late and they need to wake up early and get a lot done tomorrow.

So it goes. That was that. And the night ended on a friendly note.

What do you guys think i should've done? Should i have mentioned making out sometime or was it good that i didnt because the moments weren't right.?

Suggestions for improvement for next time i get 2 chicks in the same room with me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Try watching a porno instead of the Hollywood videos.

If one of the girls is your "friend", I don't think there are many guys that can get a friend to just switch ladders that quickly.

My suggestion would be to get two girls that aren't your friend.
 

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You don't really mention making out, it's something that has to come naturally, like respect. You don't go up to a stranger and ask him out of the blue "So... how about you start respecting me?"

You've gotta build up the mood with kino and subtle touching so she gets the idea.

Plus two chicks at the same time isn't a good idea unless they're sluts.

And like Pappy said, if one is your friend, just forget about it...
 
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dude - focus your efforts on getting one girl, so that you are not in a room with 2 girls watching movies that are not interested in you. You know how the saying goes..." One girl in the bush is better than 2 girls in the bed" -- that doesn't sound right, scratch that, maybe it doesn't apply in this situation.:)
 

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I would have....

...broke out the booze, fired up some stash (u always keep some stash, cuz you never know) ....and got the party rolling. Do some body shots, and next thing you knw... you are in it....

I missed out like this one other time in my life, and I swore that I would never let an opportunity pass me again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well i didnt know the friend very well so i guess she wasnt a friend.

Im not exactly sure but i think if i suggested it they would have been up for it.......

And when we left earlier before, the girl left her cell phone at my place...

i dont know if that was on purpose but there is certanly suspicion.
 
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