"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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2 in a row. what are the chances of that?

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I managed to pick up a HB7 on the beach a few weeks ago. number and kiss closed. shes french, irish and native. we've hooked a few times and shes coming by this friday for dinner.

picked another girl a few days later. HB7.5. really cool chick. into comics, music that i like, has a place of her own and a car(bonus)

so over the last few days i have been talking to both of them and the subject of relationships came up.

the first HB 7 had said to me "i just got out of a 7 year relationship and im trying new things out, trying to find myself again"

HB7.5 almost says the exact same thing as the first HB7.

Their wounds are still fresh and can tell by the way they talk about their relationships.

Now this isnt going to stop from sleeping with them but man I dont know whether this is coincidence or God is having a laugh at me.

I am looking for a long term relationship(not desperate for one) but man whats going on here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PokerStar said:
I managed to pick up a HB7 on the beach a few weeks ago. number and kiss closed. shes french, irish and native. we've hooked a few times and shes coming by this friday for dinner.

picked another girl a few days later. HB7.5. really cool chick. into comics, music that i like, has a place of her own and a car(bonus)

so over the last few days i have been talking to both of them and the subject of relationships came up.

the first HB 7 had said to me "i just got out of a 7 year relationship and im trying new things out, trying to find myself again"

HB7.5 almost says the exact same thing as the first HB7.

Their wounds are still fresh and can tell by the way they talk about their relationships.

Now this isnt going to stop from sleeping with them but man I dont know whether this is coincidence or God is having a laugh at me.

I am looking for a long term relationship(not desperate for one) but man whats going on here?

Your in whats called "the Zone" where everything seems to be coming together. Maybe you tweaked or calibrated your DJ skills so that your doing something right with these women

Enjoy while it lasts.
 

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I would say -- from very direct recent experience -- to avoid going too deep with either of these women. Sexual casualness, as it lasts, is one thing, but starting a committed relationship with either of these women will become filled with the residues of their recently ended relationship.
 

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Buddha_Mind said:
I would say -- from very direct recent experience -- to avoid going too deep with either of these women. Sexual casualness, as it lasts, is one thing, but starting a committed relationship with either of these women will become filled with the residues of their recently ended relationship.
yeah i hear you.
i have come to realize that these 2 would be good for casual sex and that's it.
I will continue on my journey and enjoy the finer things in life.
 

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Dear Poker Stud,
nothing succeds like success.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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