"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 in a row. what are the chances of that?

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I managed to pick up a HB7 on the beach a few weeks ago. number and kiss closed. shes french, irish and native. we've hooked a few times and shes coming by this friday for dinner.

picked another girl a few days later. HB7.5. really cool chick. into comics, music that i like, has a place of her own and a car(bonus)

so over the last few days i have been talking to both of them and the subject of relationships came up.

the first HB 7 had said to me "i just got out of a 7 year relationship and im trying new things out, trying to find myself again"

HB7.5 almost says the exact same thing as the first HB7.

Their wounds are still fresh and can tell by the way they talk about their relationships.

Now this isnt going to stop from sleeping with them but man I dont know whether this is coincidence or God is having a laugh at me.

I am looking for a long term relationship(not desperate for one) but man whats going on here?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PokerStar said:
I managed to pick up a HB7 on the beach a few weeks ago. number and kiss closed. shes french, irish and native. we've hooked a few times and shes coming by this friday for dinner.

picked another girl a few days later. HB7.5. really cool chick. into comics, music that i like, has a place of her own and a car(bonus)

so over the last few days i have been talking to both of them and the subject of relationships came up.

the first HB 7 had said to me "i just got out of a 7 year relationship and im trying new things out, trying to find myself again"

HB7.5 almost says the exact same thing as the first HB7.

Their wounds are still fresh and can tell by the way they talk about their relationships.

Now this isnt going to stop from sleeping with them but man I dont know whether this is coincidence or God is having a laugh at me.

I am looking for a long term relationship(not desperate for one) but man whats going on here?

Your in whats called "the Zone" where everything seems to be coming together. Maybe you tweaked or calibrated your DJ skills so that your doing something right with these women

Enjoy while it lasts.
 

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I would say -- from very direct recent experience -- to avoid going too deep with either of these women. Sexual casualness, as it lasts, is one thing, but starting a committed relationship with either of these women will become filled with the residues of their recently ended relationship.
 

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Buddha_Mind said:
I would say -- from very direct recent experience -- to avoid going too deep with either of these women. Sexual casualness, as it lasts, is one thing, but starting a committed relationship with either of these women will become filled with the residues of their recently ended relationship.
yeah i hear you.
i have come to realize that these 2 would be good for casual sex and that's it.
I will continue on my journey and enjoy the finer things in life.
 

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Dear Poker Stud,
nothing succeds like success.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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