"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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seek&destroy

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well, there's this girl i really like a lot, and i would like to know if there's any way ic ould "sneak up" to her so to speak. i am going to see her in about 2 hours (with a buch of our friends) and i was wondering if there's anything i could do to get her sort of interested in me. she is very shy, so i don't want to scare her off by coming on too strong. what should i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just be up front with her. Say something like, "Hey, how'ya doin'. Good to see you," and go from there, but don't go outta your way to "accidentaly" bump into her.

After the opening, if receptive, proceed into gameplan.
 
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