"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2 hours, need advice

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well, there's this girl i really like a lot, and i would like to know if there's any way ic ould "sneak up" to her so to speak. i am going to see her in about 2 hours (with a buch of our friends) and i was wondering if there's anything i could do to get her sort of interested in me. she is very shy, so i don't want to scare her off by coming on too strong. what should i do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just be up front with her. Say something like, "Hey, how'ya doin'. Good to see you," and go from there, but don't go outta your way to "accidentaly" bump into her.

After the opening, if receptive, proceed into gameplan.
 
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