"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2 HB's at party this weekend

Davey A

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Well, this past Saturday I was at a party at my buddy's place here at college. Everyone in attendance was associated with the drumline here at this University - some players, staff, pre-rookies, girlfriends, etc. I marched here for 4 years, and was the drum captain this past season, so as a result, this crowd is one in which I can be an alpha.

I'd just refreshened my booze, when I see my buddy's girl and her roomate, an 8.5 and 7 respectively, comin' across the lot, towards the party. My buddy's girl sees me, and damn near knocks 3 people over to come give me a hug. She's talking quite quickly, and generally giving off signs that she's excited to see me, without being too obvious.

Her, her roomate, and I end up inside talking by the kitchen, away from the crowd. They are both going on about what they're doing this sumemr for work - Anna (the g/f) is a lifeguard, and Sarah (the roomate) works at a fine wine and chocolate shop. In short, Anna makes me promise I'll come swim with her at work, go buy a bottle of wine from Sarah, and come drink it with them at their place this week. She made SURE I had her number correct as I was entering it into my phone.

Now, don't get me wrong, I know those are all good signals; I'm not blind. However, Anna dates a guy I used to march in the drumline with (not for 2 years though, he left the line), and Sarah is single. Sarah was more of a female AFC, which is fine, shes a nice girl, and I'd go for her in a hearbeat. Anna is such a little vixen though - she was goin' on about how I, "just HAVE to feel this new silk bedsheet set I just bought!" It was hot, trust me. Yikes.

Anyone want to weigh in on what exactly they think these two are up to? I'd go for either one if I met them by themselves in a class or wherever. But why were both so damn excited and flirty with me? I can't imagine there's the makings of both of them at the same time here, but I'd like to know what you guys all think of this. Weigh in, would ya?

Gracious! :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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[look]aRhino

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Well buddy, I honestly got no idea. But I can tell you're excited. ;)

I'm excited for you. Let us know how it goes.

Rhino
 

Evil-Rom

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One word - threesome. :)
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
One word - threesome. :)
yeah man i gotta agree. HIT THAT ****

Mad respect coming your way, let us know how it works out
 

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It sounds like you're in bro, but don't forget about your buddy - if she's offically his girlfriend then you should be going for her friend Sarah. Yeah, I know you're thinking about the wine and the swimming and the silk sheets, but he's your buddy, she's his girlfriend, and that should be repected...but damn, I admit that's some tempting sh*t right there....:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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