Hey, I've been away for so long and I lost all my skills....
That's why I need some assisstance...
So basically I met this new girl in university and she's isn't hot or anything so I just flirted occasionally and that's it.
Then I got to know her personality and liked it a lot... so I withdrew from always going to her room and stuff and then she started coming to my dorm more often and starting up convos more often.
It was cool, we kept each other company and I still don't know if she would be girlfriend material but it's was pretty much just casual flirting and having a good time together as friends(but potential gf).
Then this new guy out of nowhere who's richer than me, taller than me, and pretty much as good looking as me (not to be ****y) starts flirting with her all the time and spends a lot of time with her.
(I got my own life too... workout everyday, I won the frosh talent show competition, so I'm not a nobody either)
So basically now, she doesn't spend time with me... although she still initiates convos with me... mostly because the other guy always hangs out with her, so she doesn't have time to chill with me.
So now I don't know whether I should act cold to her(A) or just continue to flirt as usual.
(A) If I act cold, she could see me as being insecure about her meeting new people
(B) If I continue to be flirtatious, and she likes the dude, she'd easily play me as a fool. Also, if I take this route, it may seem like I'm her best nice guy friend and shiet...
What do i do?
(Btw... I still dno if I like her, cuz her personality is awesome, but her face is average (6/10)... I just feel really bad when someone steals from me! :box: )
That's why I need some assisstance...
So basically I met this new girl in university and she's isn't hot or anything so I just flirted occasionally and that's it.
Then I got to know her personality and liked it a lot... so I withdrew from always going to her room and stuff and then she started coming to my dorm more often and starting up convos more often.
It was cool, we kept each other company and I still don't know if she would be girlfriend material but it's was pretty much just casual flirting and having a good time together as friends(but potential gf).
Then this new guy out of nowhere who's richer than me, taller than me, and pretty much as good looking as me (not to be ****y) starts flirting with her all the time and spends a lot of time with her.
(I got my own life too... workout everyday, I won the frosh talent show competition, so I'm not a nobody either)
So basically now, she doesn't spend time with me... although she still initiates convos with me... mostly because the other guy always hangs out with her, so she doesn't have time to chill with me.
So now I don't know whether I should act cold to her(A) or just continue to flirt as usual.
(A) If I act cold, she could see me as being insecure about her meeting new people
(B) If I continue to be flirtatious, and she likes the dude, she'd easily play me as a fool. Also, if I take this route, it may seem like I'm her best nice guy friend and shiet...
What do i do?
(Btw... I still dno if I like her, cuz her personality is awesome, but her face is average (6/10)... I just feel really bad when someone steals from me! :box: )