Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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original_prankster

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so theres 2 girls i can go for. 1 i had 1 date with and now she just wanted to be friends, and she went back to her old boyfriend, but he cheated on her, lol, and now he's really being the biggest ass, and hurting her feelings a lot.

the other is a friend of mine who i asked out using the hangman method, but she sed not at the moment.

can any of you guys out there tell me how to use the ****y and funny methods to attract them both, and examples of the things to say? cuz i understand the concept of c & f, but i dont know the things to say. i can be ****y and i can be funny, but i dont really know how to combine the 2. thanks dudes
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Damian

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I say go for the second girl. The first one seems uber-unstable and is bound to eff you up if you start a relationship with her. Just look out for yourself when getting into the game.

-Damian
 

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I say go for neither. Its easier to get a new fresh girl then to try and turn a friendship into a relationship.

C+F examples: search button

I don't know they just come to me. But when i first started out it was kind of hard to think of one. Everytime you interact with a human, think back and really think of something C+F that you should have said. That's how it work for me.

I use more negs.

C+F is just basicaly having an atittude like you don't care about them/you don't need them. But you already know this.
 
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