"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2 girls

original_prankster

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so theres 2 girls i can go for. 1 i had 1 date with and now she just wanted to be friends, and she went back to her old boyfriend, but he cheated on her, lol, and now he's really being the biggest ass, and hurting her feelings a lot.

the other is a friend of mine who i asked out using the hangman method, but she sed not at the moment.

can any of you guys out there tell me how to use the ****y and funny methods to attract them both, and examples of the things to say? cuz i understand the concept of c & f, but i dont know the things to say. i can be ****y and i can be funny, but i dont really know how to combine the 2. thanks dudes
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damian

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I say go for the second girl. The first one seems uber-unstable and is bound to eff you up if you start a relationship with her. Just look out for yourself when getting into the game.

-Damian
 

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I say go for neither. Its easier to get a new fresh girl then to try and turn a friendship into a relationship.

C+F examples: search button

I don't know they just come to me. But when i first started out it was kind of hard to think of one. Everytime you interact with a human, think back and really think of something C+F that you should have said. That's how it work for me.

I use more negs.

C+F is just basicaly having an atittude like you don't care about them/you don't need them. But you already know this.
 
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