"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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exwhyzee

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Girl #1 I have been dating since August, in Boston, but she lives near me in Los Angeles. I like her and she like me a lot. She will not cheat on me, but if I cheat on her I don't think she will tolerate it.

Girl #2 Is a longtime acquaintence who I have always had a crush on, but never persued, lives near me in Los Angeles. We spent two weekends together since August and I never brought up Girl #1. I can tell this girl likes me a lot which is great. She recently "friended" me on Facebook and saw that I am in a relationship with Girl #1. She sent me a message basically saying "Do you really have a girlfriend?"

Normally I would just tell her yeah I have a girlfriend, too bad for you Girl #2. But next semester I will be living by her and taking classes in LA, so I want to leave my options open.

Should I tell her I have a girlfriend? Is there anything better I can say?

What should I do with Girl #1?

Any other damage control advice would be great. Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cod3r

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Tell her you have a girlfriend just as plain and matter factly as possible...

Most girls don't give two craps, she'll sleep with you without one thought to ur poor girl if she's interested


-Cod3r
 
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