"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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exwhyzee

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Girl #1 I have been dating since August, in Boston, but she lives near me in Los Angeles. I like her and she like me a lot. She will not cheat on me, but if I cheat on her I don't think she will tolerate it.

Girl #2 Is a longtime acquaintence who I have always had a crush on, but never persued, lives near me in Los Angeles. We spent two weekends together since August and I never brought up Girl #1. I can tell this girl likes me a lot which is great. She recently "friended" me on Facebook and saw that I am in a relationship with Girl #1. She sent me a message basically saying "Do you really have a girlfriend?"

Normally I would just tell her yeah I have a girlfriend, too bad for you Girl #2. But next semester I will be living by her and taking classes in LA, so I want to leave my options open.

Should I tell her I have a girlfriend? Is there anything better I can say?

What should I do with Girl #1?

Any other damage control advice would be great. Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cod3r

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Tell her you have a girlfriend just as plain and matter factly as possible...

Most girls don't give two craps, she'll sleep with you without one thought to ur poor girl if she's interested


-Cod3r
 
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