Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hey everyone, so I have a little dilema here.

I've gone out with this one girl (we'll call her girl A) like around three times. All of them were fun, lots of making out and touching over the clothes [she's a virgin so she stops my wandering hands...>.<]. But yeah, I told her I wanted to see 30 days of night and she offered to take me and pay for me, so that's going down later this week.

This other girl (girl B) I have not gone out with yet, but I've seen her at shows in the local music scene like 3 times. She's kind of interested in me, and has tried to get me to go out with her and her friends a couple times before. Long story short, I'm seeing her later this week also.

Okay, here's the "problem". I just found out that girl A and girl B used to be best of friends in high school. They've recently reaquainted and started getting really close again. After finding this out today, I dont know if I should still see them both on the same day. (girl b after class around noon, and girl A is picking me up around 7:30)

What would you guys do?
See them both? (I will be at least making out with both of them)
What if they talk(its more a matter of WHEN they will talk) and then I end up seeing none of them in the future?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do it, go out with both on the same day.

You (talking to A) My day is so packed. I got a date later on tonight.
Her: With who? (or if she doesn't ask then say it anyways)
You: With some girl named B
Her: OMG B is like my best friend
You: No way! We should have a threesome :D

(now reply to my Thread :p)
 

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Maxtro said:
Do it, go out with both on the same day.

You (talking to A) My day is so packed. I got a date later on tonight.
Her: With who? (or if she doesn't ask then say it anyways)
You: With some girl named B
Her: OMG B is like my best friend
You: No way! We should have a threesome :D

(now reply to my Thread :p)
lol
The second part wouldn't work cause girl B already knows I know girl A and vice versa.

I should really try that threesome thing though...lol
But first I'd have to get girl A to have sex with me in the first place cause she's still a virgin...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hmm so they know that you know that they know each other. That makes the situation more complicated.

I think it would be ok to go out with both of them but you have to make sure that they know what you are doing. It's not good if they find out that you are going out with both of them when they talk to each other. Just be honest and open when you tell them. But don't ask A if it's ok that you are going out with B and vice versa.

As for the threesome goal down the line. Women are more likely to have a threesome with a friend of theres than with a random women. You never know, maybe A & B did some stuff together when nobody was watching. It's not uncommon.
 

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Maxtro said:
Hmm so they know that you know that they know each other. That makes the situation more complicated.

I think it would be ok to go out with both of them but you have to make sure that they know what you are doing. It's not good if they find out that you are going out with both of them when they talk to each other. Just be honest and open. But don't ask A if it's ok that you are going out with B and vice versa.

As for the threesome goal down the line. Women are more likely to have a threesome with a friend of theres than with a random women. You never know, maybe A & B did some stuff together when nobody was watching. It's no uncommon.
So what if I tell girl B that I'll have to leave a little earlier cause I'm seeing girl A later, and I tell girl A to pick me up a little bit later cause I'll need time to shower and stuff after comming back from playing basketball with girl B?
 

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As for the threesome goal down the line. Women are more likely to have a threesome with a friend of theres than with a random women. You never know, maybe A & B did some stuff together when nobody was watching. It's not uncommon.
Oh yeah, for this I think it's worth a shot.
I mean, I could "jokingly" throw it in there a little bit later on and gauge their reactions.
 

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I can't really tell you what to say but that seems fine.

Heh the thought of a threesome should be a long term goal. But try to find out if she has any bi tendencies or if she ever kissed a girl, something like that. It has to be done smoothly.
 

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You guys do know that all girls are bisexual right? I'm not joking. I'm dead serious.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New long term goal: Threesome.
:D

Penis is just average though, and I've only had sex 4 times, which lasted between 10-20 min. I dunno if I could handle two girls yet...I'm gonna need lots of practice....hahaha.
 

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bob88 said:
New long term goal: Threesome.
:D

Penis is just average though, and I've only had sex 4 times, which lasted between 10-20 min. I dunno if I could handle two girls yet...I'm gonna need lots of practice....hahaha.
haha, You don't need to be good! I know guys that lost there virginity to a threesome.
 

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haha, You don't need to be good! I know guys that lost there virginity to a threesome.
Wow.

Still though, I'd want to be at least somewhat good during it. (if...no, WHEN it happens. :up:
 

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Thinking this way will stuff you up.

All that matters is that it will be good for you. You're not expected to be good.
 

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It'll be really easy. Girls do sexual favours for each other all the time. They just like it better when it's a guy doing them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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