"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2 Girls At Once

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So I just got two girls numbers at the same time. They're friends and were hanging out together. How should I proceed with reaching out to them?

They're pretty much equal in terms of my preference for them. Should I just pick one and pursue her? Try to initiate both at same time?

I'm sure they will talk to each other about if I'm texting them of not so I feel like that's kind of challenging. Thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Killakittie

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I'd make them compete against each other for my attention which would be easy as they know each other and im sure they're both aware that the other is interested. Offer to hang out with one while texting the other mentioning that you have planned to go out with her friend but you really wanted to see her, then when your out with said girl ask her friend questions about her and get the hamster rolling lol.
 

AllDay85

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Try to get them to hang out together all three of you. Maybe play pool, or bowling, or whatever. Flirt with both of them. You'll be able to tell who has the highest interest level. Go for that one.

I can tell you your odds of successfully pursuing both at once are close to zero.
 

parkthebus

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Call the one with the highest interest level and ask if her and her friend would like to go for a few drinks. Then give the higher interest one more attention, remembering to interact with the lower interest one occasionally. Go hot and cold on her.
 

Fatal Jay

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I'm looking at the responses you guys are either going to get this guy laughed at or friend zoned. Just pick the hottest girl, call her three days from now and set up a date. Do not stay on the phone line, the call is just for the date, then hangup this is it. If you think you coming out banging both these broads then you lost your mind, this is not the movies.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrgoodstuff

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I'm looking at the responses you guys are either going to get this guy laughed at or friend zoned. Just pick the hottest girl, call her three days from now and set up a date. Do not stay on the phone line, the call is just for the date, then hangup this is it. If you think you coming out banging both these broads then you lost your mind, this is not the movies.
The easiest way banging multiples is bi-sexual women. You can bang multiple women in a circle though. But it would be done behind the scenes with the other not fully aware. It's drama but some of you like that.
 

HoneyHitter

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Stop. You haven't banged either one of them yet. Fix that first. If you're any good, that will increase your chances ten fold.
 
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