"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2 Girls At Once

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So I just got two girls numbers at the same time. They're friends and were hanging out together. How should I proceed with reaching out to them?

They're pretty much equal in terms of my preference for them. Should I just pick one and pursue her? Try to initiate both at same time?

I'm sure they will talk to each other about if I'm texting them of not so I feel like that's kind of challenging. Thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Killakittie

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I'd make them compete against each other for my attention which would be easy as they know each other and im sure they're both aware that the other is interested. Offer to hang out with one while texting the other mentioning that you have planned to go out with her friend but you really wanted to see her, then when your out with said girl ask her friend questions about her and get the hamster rolling lol.
 

AllDay85

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Try to get them to hang out together all three of you. Maybe play pool, or bowling, or whatever. Flirt with both of them. You'll be able to tell who has the highest interest level. Go for that one.

I can tell you your odds of successfully pursuing both at once are close to zero.
 

parkthebus

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Call the one with the highest interest level and ask if her and her friend would like to go for a few drinks. Then give the higher interest one more attention, remembering to interact with the lower interest one occasionally. Go hot and cold on her.
 

Fatal Jay

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I'm looking at the responses you guys are either going to get this guy laughed at or friend zoned. Just pick the hottest girl, call her three days from now and set up a date. Do not stay on the phone line, the call is just for the date, then hangup this is it. If you think you coming out banging both these broads then you lost your mind, this is not the movies.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mrgoodstuff

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I'm looking at the responses you guys are either going to get this guy laughed at or friend zoned. Just pick the hottest girl, call her three days from now and set up a date. Do not stay on the phone line, the call is just for the date, then hangup this is it. If you think you coming out banging both these broads then you lost your mind, this is not the movies.
The easiest way banging multiples is bi-sexual women. You can bang multiple women in a circle though. But it would be done behind the scenes with the other not fully aware. It's drama but some of you like that.
 

HoneyHitter

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Stop. You haven't banged either one of them yet. Fix that first. If you're any good, that will increase your chances ten fold.
 
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