"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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2 girls=1 little problem

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alright here is the situation:
Girl B and i are 'seeing' each other...and were mostly **** buddies...BUT...i think she is emotionally attached, Girl A however i have been attracted to for a while, but screwed it up with her because i was 'seeing' Girl B. well last night i kissed girl A in the cornmaze (along with some other things:D ) anyways.....i'm having a bonfire-type thing at my house tonight. and both are coming...(FVCK) any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i already invited both....(b4 i got with girl A...i had already invited Girl B) :down: unless i can come up with a crappy excuse...
 
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You can...
-run
-burn your house down
-tell one of them your grounded like a little baby
-somehow make one not wanna come.

It seems like youre not very good at handling 2 girls. How the hell did you manage to invite both of them. Avoid one of them like the plague.
 
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You let bein' a DJ get to your head my friend. One girl, man. Make up a good excuse why one of them can't come over. Right now is a good time to use the " I have to cancel our date" method.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by frisco
Just ignore both of them im sure by the end of the night thell both be secretly fighting over you showing u attention
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That could work.


Another possiblity is if there's one you'd rather be with, then you just show her attention the whole night. The other will likely get pissed off and leave.
 
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Spit game at both of them, just make sure the other one don't see it.

Finish the night having both girls feeling good about themselves. Allow the one you're having sex with to spend the night so you guys can enjoy your night together. The next day, try to have your mind made up about who you want to be with.

In either case, no matter what happens, you win.
 
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Hook one of your friends up with girl b. Everyone wins.
OR let um compete over you.
 
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Ask one of your friends to keep on busy the whole night!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know a great excus! lol. Tell one of them you was busy becuase your hosting whatever you was hosting. Your making sure that nothing get stolen, broke and everybody is having fun. lOL thats what I would do. If you feel like playing hard to get tell both you was kinda busy.(Make sure you greet the girls when they get to your house. then be like hey, i need to greet some of my friends ill be back in a bit.) lol. DA*MN im bad!
 
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