Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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2 girls=1 little problem

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alright here is the situation:
Girl B and i are 'seeing' each other...and were mostly **** buddies...BUT...i think she is emotionally attached, Girl A however i have been attracted to for a while, but screwed it up with her because i was 'seeing' Girl B. well last night i kissed girl A in the cornmaze (along with some other things:D ) anyways.....i'm having a bonfire-type thing at my house tonight. and both are coming...(FVCK) any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i already invited both....(b4 i got with girl A...i had already invited Girl B) :down: unless i can come up with a crappy excuse...
 

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You can...
-run
-burn your house down
-tell one of them your grounded like a little baby
-somehow make one not wanna come.

It seems like youre not very good at handling 2 girls. How the hell did you manage to invite both of them. Avoid one of them like the plague.
 

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You let bein' a DJ get to your head my friend. One girl, man. Make up a good excuse why one of them can't come over. Right now is a good time to use the " I have to cancel our date" method.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by frisco
Just ignore both of them im sure by the end of the night thell both be secretly fighting over you showing u attention
That could work.


Another possiblity is if there's one you'd rather be with, then you just show her attention the whole night. The other will likely get pissed off and leave.
 

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Spit game at both of them, just make sure the other one don't see it.

Finish the night having both girls feeling good about themselves. Allow the one you're having sex with to spend the night so you guys can enjoy your night together. The next day, try to have your mind made up about who you want to be with.

In either case, no matter what happens, you win.
 

Best friends? NAY

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Hook one of your friends up with girl b. Everyone wins.
OR let um compete over you.
 

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Ask one of your friends to keep on busy the whole night!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know a great excus! lol. Tell one of them you was busy becuase your hosting whatever you was hosting. Your making sure that nothing get stolen, broke and everybody is having fun. lOL thats what I would do. If you feel like playing hard to get tell both you was kinda busy.(Make sure you greet the girls when they get to your house. then be like hey, i need to greet some of my friends ill be back in a bit.) lol. DA*MN im bad!
 
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