"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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okay i've known these girls for like 3 years already and now wer in sophomore year, one like a 7 and the other like 5-6, and evry other day at lunch i see them and when one comes to hug me the other one gets mad (they're together most of the time) but playing around and says" dont talk to me" or "why didnt u hug me first huh?" and wen i go hug the other girl then the other gets mad until i just hug both of them lol and we jsut play around and stuff, they both have boyfriends but i like the both of them and i was wondering if i had a chance if they broke up or sumthing or am i in the friend zone bcuz sometimes we play around like that or flirt with each other and stuff, ( i dont really know wut flirting is or when i do it cuz i just play around alot) so ya, and i wanna know if they're instrested or not or just being friendly.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it too late for me to be a boyfriend cuz idk if they put me in the friend zone.
 
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Hugs during school?
They both have boyfriends?
Theres two types of flirting some girls have, serious flirting when they are attracted to the guy, and playing around flirting because its fun for them, which is most likely what your dealing with.


Friendzone.

Find some new girls to target.
Good luck
 
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